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xvszero t1_je6kucr wrote
Reply to comment by ThrowRA_KristiAmbers in 26F 25M Fiance keeps watching porn by ThrowRA_KristiAmbers
While I don't think this is wrong I can tell you what will almost certainly happen. He will agree to it to keep you, hide it from you, you'll find out he is still doing it and feel betrayed and be hurt worse. Basically no one actually quits porn for a partner.
xvszero t1_je2tgj9 wrote
I feel like there are a few things probably true here.
- He's probably never going to stop looking at porn.
- It's not about you "not being enough" or whatever.
- It doesn't necessarily mean he will want "variety" in who he sleeps with.
- But that doesn't mean you have to like it. Kind of up to you to decide what you do about it.
xvszero t1_jadncki wrote
Reply to My (35F) husband (37M) pressures me to have sex when I don't want to, is this pretty common? by [deleted]
I don't know how common it is but it's definitely not ok.
xvszero t1_ja90qaz wrote
All your base are belong to us.
Yeah, I'm old.
xvszero t1_j6pk2ob wrote
Well for starters, if your current partner is toxic, dump them.
You seem to have an idea of why you are attracted to toxic men related to past trauma. Are you seeing a therapist for that?
Where do you meet the men you date?
As for the general question, there are 4 billion men in the world. Yes, some of them are good men.
xvszero t1_j2bxdvo wrote
Reply to comment by RepresentativeJob247 in [20F] [20M] my boyfriend made new year plans with his other friends while my dad is in the hospital by RepresentativeJob247
Are you going to be with dad on NYE? Do you wish your boyfriend stayed with you and dad?
xvszero t1_j29mx2y wrote
Reply to [20F] [20M] my boyfriend made new year plans with his other friends while my dad is in the hospital by RepresentativeJob247
What do you wish your boyfriend was doing on NYE instead?
xvszero t1_iyfehoy wrote
Reply to comment by friednuts in Girlfriend of a year and a half still wants to keep the relationship a secret? by friednuts
She's probably afraid that it will get back to her parents. What is her religion and what is yours?
xvszero t1_iyfdqfm wrote
Reply to Girlfriend of a year and a half still wants to keep the relationship a secret? by friednuts
Well, my first two questions would be is there a chance she has another boyfriend and is there some religious element to this?
Beyond that it's just inexplicable to me.
xvszero t1_iyemxfc wrote
Reply to comment by TinoAlgandar in Hi so I found out my husband was on a site looking for local girls to meet up and have sex with during the whole last month of my pregnancy until now with my two week old I'm feeling so insecure and hurt by [deleted]
Nah this ain't about you it's about him being a piece of shit. Absolutely end it and find a better life without him.
xvszero t1_iyegslg wrote
Huh? Most every post about cheating is like 95% people telling them to leave now. I don't see much cheating defense around here.
xvszero t1_iuk9os7 wrote
Sounds like a dipshit. Even if just fwb, you should only be with people who actually respect you.
xvszero t1_iuk7tbq wrote
Definitely don't get married. You need to break up. You feel sorry for her? I feel sorry for her that you haven't broken up yet. It's going to hurt, sure, but the sooner the better.
xvszero t1_iuk6npq wrote
Reply to If your partner gave you the password to their social media, would you snoop to find out about who they were with or messaged before you? by InterestingWitness76
No. I wouldn't take their password either.
xvszero t1_iujbite wrote
Depends on the length. Generally speaking, no, but if you're running a super long cable it might. Cat5/6 is supposed to be good for up to 300 feet or so.
xvszero t1_jegkqoh wrote
Reply to I 24F want to leave guy 23M I met a week ago by kokopotate
There really isn't much to get away from, you don't even have a relationship. Just tell him you're not interested and if he bothers you, block and move on with your life.