whoamiforrealsie

whoamiforrealsie t1_je3vp70 wrote

You had me early on. And then you made my heart stop and lose my breath. Full sincerity and honesty. I’ve never had a reaction like this to a story here.

Edit: A word

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whoamiforrealsie t1_j4vjgza wrote

I get what you’re asking and have the same question.

My current guess is that, while sugar does dissolve in water, it leaves a residue behind when dumping the water. So to clean it, you would need to use a soap.

No clue if that’s even close, though.

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whoamiforrealsie t1_j4mwzpu wrote

You deal with it by one of two ways:

  1. Break up with the person who believes what you want don’t matter when it’s opposite to what she wants- at this point, it’s abusive and not okay.
  2. Set your boundary one more time, and go to therapy. If this doesn’t work immediately, you leave.

She’s straight up telling you that she believes she is above you. If she thought you were her equal, she would’ve started using your new name immediately.

I hope this is the only red flag in her behaviors, but I highly doubt it. Do a serious, objective review of how she treats you.

I wish you the best. Stay safe!

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whoamiforrealsie t1_j1yih58 wrote

Today you kicked ass. Except for saying she ran away to not face the music- that’s pure assholery.

You taught a child who is experiencing terrible pain and likely neglect how to survive. She’ll have a chance at a normal life in her adulthood because of you. How do you think this would go without those skills?

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