This is my thought also. It sounds like the both have issues with communication. I can't imagine changing my name without discussing it with my partner first. Not to ask her permission or anything, but to give her a heads up and also provide an opportunity to talk about it first.
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This is my thought also. It sounds like the both have issues with communication. I can't imagine changing my name without discussing it with my partner first. Not to ask her permission or anything, but to give her a heads up and also provide an opportunity to talk about it first.