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trvllvr t1_jecq6j9 wrote
Reply to TIFU by making my girlfriend (21F) drive to mine (22M) for 35 mins at midnight just for me to fall asleep and not open the door when she got here by Lance971
Send a whole hearted apology explaining. Say that you understand she is upset and will give her space, but that you do care for her and hope she can forgive you. Maybe do something nice for her, send her flowers or something she would like.
trvllvr t1_jebgfdo wrote
Reply to comment by Bi_Bibliophile in TIFU by deleting a guys number by [deleted]
Well if you stopped talking, maybe he went back on the dating app. Doesn’t hurt to look.
trvllvr t1_jebg9z9 wrote
Reply to comment by Bi_Bibliophile in TIFU by deleting a guys number by [deleted]
Not sure where you are or who your carrier is, but contact them directly. They should be able to help, if you are really interested.
trvllvr t1_jebg61r wrote
Reply to comment by Bi_Bibliophile in TIFU by deleting a guys number by [deleted]
You have an account, login and view past bills. Or contact your carrier. They can provide it.
trvllvr t1_jebfxob wrote
Reply to comment by Bi_Bibliophile in TIFU by deleting a guys number by [deleted]
Oh they are definitely right. You need to see someone to work on your insecurities. They will continue to ruin any possible relationship if you don’t.
trvllvr t1_j8rfgb4 wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in TIFU I have officially succeeded in scaring off someone I really cared about, and I’m so mad at myself and kicking myself for it. 27 F 27 M by [deleted]
How I read his text wasn’t him being scared off at all. I took it as, “I’m giving you the space you need to heal, but want to let you know I am here and thinking of you.” Because if he were scared, he most likely would not have reached out following you telling him you needed space. It seems he wants to keep the connection open.
If you are in a place emotionally to reconnect, send a message or call him letting him know how you are doing and thanking him for reaching out. That you appreciate his support.
trvllvr t1_jecqb3d wrote
Reply to comment by nightowl_i in TIFU by making my girlfriend (21F) drive to mine (22M) for 35 mins at midnight just for me to fall asleep and not open the door when she got here by Lance971
Or if you know you are tired, set an alarm to wake before her expected arrival time. So, in case you fall asleep you’ll wake before she arrives.