Exactly! This is all about the person trying to make it about themselves. Ask something like, “is there a favorite memory that you have of them that you would like to share?” Perusing the obits for details on someone you know nothing about is just plain creepy.
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Reply to comment by BXFXMIKE in LPT: When someone you know casually loses someone, read the obituary and comment on something specific. by dbsgirl
Exactly! This is all about the person trying to make it about themselves. Ask something like, “is there a favorite memory that you have of them that you would like to share?” Perusing the obits for details on someone you know nothing about is just plain creepy.