tahthtiwpusitawh
tahthtiwpusitawh t1_j88t83h wrote
Reply to comment by Xoor in Large study provides evidence that goal incongruence can harm romantic relationship satisfaction by glum-platimium
Highly accurate. Very tough to anticipate when it comes to kids and difficult times. Use proxy measures as best you can. Ie: what happens under stress, no sleep, general responsibility/accountability.
tahthtiwpusitawh t1_j88um9m wrote
Reply to comment by Dizzy_Slip in Large study provides evidence that goal incongruence can harm romantic relationship satisfaction by glum-platimium
Dogs last 15+ years. Test the dedication. You get married have kids in 7 years. Up all night with kids, who is up at 6 to walk the dog. How is the dog vet and expense budget when you want to buy a house.
Trust me as a guy who looks after my wife's two pets from her early twenties (before me) full time.
Edit: add the care and lack of flexibility. Hockey game after work, nope home to feed and let dogs out. Vacation, add $$