I've learned to just disregard the "not safe" thing. Most of the time it just means POC live in the area, and the white people who fill up these kinds of subreddits consider that "dangerous". Otherwise, thanks for the recommendations, being able to take the ferry to Seattle would be awesome!

Large enough that it has like, a theatre or an arcade or something lol, I grew up in a town of 30,000 so I'd say that's my limit

As is most of the world, sadly