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tabshiftescape t1_jd1rddh wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in TIFU reading my girlfriends texts after a bout of insecurity by [deleted]
If you’re giving up and have nothing left to lose, then why not just take the rest of your day and have a cry and a nap? You’re emotionally exhausted, not defeated.
tabshiftescape t1_jd1qg76 wrote
Reply to comment by ThrowRA4Reuse in TIFU reading my girlfriends texts after a bout of insecurity by [deleted]
Gotcha. Well you have no active will right now. There sheer act of self preservation and of acknowledging it is in itself at least a passive will to go forward. So you have will and have no will.
I think both are true. Something in your mind is dragging you forward while the rest of you collapses. I think that’s okay and part of the process.
tabshiftescape t1_jd1q4mp wrote
Reply to comment by ThrowRA4Reuse in TIFU reading my girlfriends texts after a bout of insecurity by [deleted]
Well I suppose the thing to do would be to post on Reddit about it. Just to get other peoples perspective, remind yourself that you’re not alone, give goals a distraction. At least that’s what I’d be doing and what it seems like you’re doing now. It’s the healthy natural thing to do.
tabshiftescape t1_jd1pv4c wrote
Reply to comment by ThrowRA4Reuse in TIFU reading my girlfriends texts after a bout of insecurity by [deleted]
I’m feeling for you friend. This won’t do you in.
tabshiftescape t1_jd1pf5w wrote
Reply to comment by ThrowRA4Reuse in TIFU reading my girlfriends texts after a bout of insecurity by [deleted]
I hear ya bud. Try to remember that you haven’t lost; you’re still here and chances are no matter how fucked things seem now, 99 times out of 100 they’re unfuck-able.
Also you won’t go bankrupt if you give yourself an hour to cry this evening. It might even help clear your mind so you can focus on the things you’re dealing with. I wish you the best of luck!
tabshiftescape t1_jd1p1qb wrote
Reply to comment by ThrowRA4Reuse in TIFU reading my girlfriends texts after a bout of insecurity by [deleted]
Is there something more important that you need to be doing? It’s very important that you take time to care for yourself.
tabshiftescape t1_jd1oxfx wrote
Reply to comment by ThrowRA4Reuse in TIFU reading my girlfriends texts after a bout of insecurity by [deleted]
Grab some tissue or a nice soft cloth and go for it man. Crying is part of the process.
tabshiftescape t1_jd1oh60 wrote
Reply to comment by ThrowRA4Reuse in TIFU reading my girlfriends texts after a bout of insecurity by [deleted]
What would happen if you broke down?
tabshiftescape t1_jd1obhi wrote
Reply to comment by ThrowRA4Reuse in TIFU reading my girlfriends texts after a bout of insecurity by [deleted]
That might be the best thing for you for a bit, and then maybe some day it’ll be time to move forward into something else. Just please really do try to be kind to yourself.
tabshiftescape t1_jd1ntyp wrote
I’m sorry bud, this is really really terrible to go through. I hope you can find some peace.
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Reply to Yet another DMV question! Has anyone been able to both change their name on their driver's license AND get a Real ID at the same time? by hobiwan-ken0bi
Congratulations on getting hitched! Sorry I can’t help with the DMV.
tabshiftescape t1_j6pg4hd wrote
Reply to What will be the minimum required percentage of straight people required to prevent humans from going extinct? by disko123
There’s something called the 50/500 rule you should look into.
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Reply to comment by DrChefAstronaut in People who are conservative, why? by sia_q
With the paprika.
tabshiftescape t1_j68c3lv wrote
Reply to Leaving this sub. by [deleted]
I don’t get it.
tabshiftescape t1_j5asj6n wrote
What inspired you to do an AMA?
tabshiftescape t1_j1yb4j7 wrote
Reply to I'm currently in college, and am struggling with whether to live in the dorms or in an apartment. Parents made a very generous offer and I don't know which one to pick. by Brilliant-Bed2876
This isn't even a conversation. You take the car.
Your buddies are going to have a couch for you to crash on. For you to be able to get a car after getting an education is going to set you up in a huge way.
You know what you need to do. The beauty of being in college is that you get to finally enjoy spending most of your nights at a place where you might not receive your mail.
This is an easy choice in my book.
tabshiftescape t1_ixw9xkf wrote
Hope you’re feeling better these days!
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Reply to Happy Halloween! by joshsundquist
These are fabulous!!
tabshiftescape t1_iu3dkh8 wrote
Reply to comment by Avalon-1 in Found at a McDonald’s in Anchorage Alaska. Conservatives are mad at Our Senator Lisa Murkowski (R). by Brilliant_Surprise54
Yeah okay I see. That’s the account I’m familiar with. It admits a stretch on the comparison between what happened on January 6th 2021 and November 19th 2000. Look I’m not saying that the Brooks Brothers Riot wasn’t interference, im just saying (like Business Insider) that its effect wasn’t impactful. That’s all.
tabshiftescape t1_iu3ax7n wrote
Reply to comment by Avalon-1 in Found at a McDonald’s in Anchorage Alaska. Conservatives are mad at Our Senator Lisa Murkowski (R). by Brilliant_Surprise54
What did that disruption look like?
tabshiftescape t1_iu362ro wrote
Reply to comment by Avalon-1 in Found at a McDonald’s in Anchorage Alaska. Conservatives are mad at Our Senator Lisa Murkowski (R). by Brilliant_Surprise54
When we disagree on facts I don’t think there’s productive conversation to be had. My personal recollection of the Brooks Brothers Riot and that of every account of it I’ve found in the past couple minutes searching to refresh my memory indicates the only impact was that a few bureaucrats and the media was kept out of where the ballot counters were working. Unless you distrust what the ballot counters were doing, the election remained intact.
Instead of attacking individuals, maybe it’d be more productive to argue for the dismantling of the electoral college.
tabshiftescape t1_iu350lg wrote
Reply to comment by Avalon-1 in Found at a McDonald’s in Anchorage Alaska. Conservatives are mad at Our Senator Lisa Murkowski (R). by Brilliant_Surprise54
And she’s voted with Biden 73% of the time. She was one of only two Republican senators who voted with Obama more than 70% of the time across his presidency.
She’s grown increasingly moderate over the past ten years and consensus building is absolutely what we need in this country right now. She, along with Congresswoman Cheney stood up against the party line for the insurrection on Jan 6 (the events of which were a far cry from those of the Brooks Brothers Riot which you compared them to in another comment). That in itself may be a terminal decision for their political careers. It’s integrity.
You don’t have to like her politics or her voting record. But as far as the GOP goes she’s one of the last ones sticking to her guns.
tabshiftescape t1_iu3389g wrote
Reply to comment by Brilliant_Surprise54 in Found at a McDonald’s in Anchorage Alaska. Conservatives are mad at Our Senator Lisa Murkowski (R). by Brilliant_Surprise54
And she’s voted more with Biden during his presidency and Obama during his presidency than she voted with Trump. And she’s known as one the of the most moderate Senators currently in office, which we desperately need right now.
tabshiftescape t1_iu300b6 wrote
Reply to comment by Avalon-1 in Found at a McDonald’s in Anchorage Alaska. Conservatives are mad at Our Senator Lisa Murkowski (R). by Brilliant_Surprise54
Even though that would be a meaningfully important distinction in today’s GOP, I don’t think I agree.
Why do you think she’s the same as Trump, just polite?
tabshiftescape t1_jeervo8 wrote
Reply to [OC] A popular Quranic verse among google searchers every Friday by DataVizzdom
Is Surah Kahf this entire thing?
https://quran.com/al-kahf