ruubduubins

ruubduubins t1_j6oevzt wrote

It sounds like you've decided you want to be with him.

But he doesn't feel the same.

If he's giving you excuses for why he slept with you, he's not fully into you.

Edit. He said you made him uncomfortable at work so you left the job??? But still ok sleeping with you?

He's either using you for sex or completely embarrassed to be in a relationship woth you(likely someone your age)

Either is a huge red flag

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ruubduubins t1_j6odi0x wrote

Ok same deal tho. He's not gonna marry you. You just keep throwing yourself at him and he's 26. He's gonna agree to easy sex with no strings attached.

He has made it clear there's no future for you two.

You should move on.

Do you really want to be in a relationship with someone who can't decide if they actually want to be with you?

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ruubduubins t1_j650ygc wrote

You need a lawyer. That's retaliation and is illegal. I imagine if you called some lawyers you'd fine an employment lawyer who would take the case without you paying first

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