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ruubduubins t1_j6ofvtv wrote
Reply to comment by ThrowRAsadi4life in Friends to lovers to disaster. 44 F 26M by ThrowRAsadi4life
Well of course he shows up for you then.
Otherwise he would lose the easy convenient sex.
Block him on everything and don't let him back in.
ruubduubins t1_j6oevzt wrote
Reply to comment by ThrowRAsadi4life in Friends to lovers to disaster. 44 F 26M by ThrowRAsadi4life
It sounds like you've decided you want to be with him.
But he doesn't feel the same.
If he's giving you excuses for why he slept with you, he's not fully into you.
Edit. He said you made him uncomfortable at work so you left the job??? But still ok sleeping with you?
He's either using you for sex or completely embarrassed to be in a relationship woth you(likely someone your age)
Either is a huge red flag
ruubduubins t1_j6odi0x wrote
Reply to comment by ThrowRAsadi4life in Friends to lovers to disaster. 44 F 26M by ThrowRAsadi4life
Ok same deal tho. He's not gonna marry you. You just keep throwing yourself at him and he's 26. He's gonna agree to easy sex with no strings attached.
He has made it clear there's no future for you two.
You should move on.
Do you really want to be in a relationship with someone who can't decide if they actually want to be with you?
ruubduubins t1_j6ocril wrote
He's not gonna change. He's 44.
He's doesn't love you. You're just available.
ruubduubins t1_j650ygc wrote
Reply to Sick time pay out? by funsk8mom
You need a lawyer. That's retaliation and is illegal. I imagine if you called some lawyers you'd fine an employment lawyer who would take the case without you paying first
ruubduubins t1_j4x32hr wrote
Reply to Electrical costs are obscene. by uwuwotsdps42069
Got an old fridge with nothing in it?
Did ya change all your lights to LED?
ruubduubins t1_j0ctqm3 wrote
Has it had an effect or pedestrian fatalities?
I think it's pointless. You're charging your population and paying a huge kickback to the company that operates them.
ruubduubins t1_ixdz16v wrote
Reply to NP employees found using town equipment on mayor’s private property by Rogue-Island-Pirate
I think the worst part is that the property owners wanted to sell to the town. The town decided no and then the mayor bought it on his own.
I'm suuuuuure he paid a fair market value for it of course. With no quid pro quo
ruubduubins t1_jd2l8jl wrote
Reply to What do you do? by Loveroffinerthings
You see what everyone wears.
You see most people's cars.
You might see their house.
You don't see anyone's retirement accounts lol