You should have been honest with Sabrina from the get go, at least found a way to tell her yourself sooner.
The rest depends on your behavior - were you explicitly platonic with your ex fuck buddies? Then she is projecting her own insecurities on you and that's not ok.
Did you remain flirty and sexual with them? In that case it is on you. You don't have to cut all ties with Jake and Lena, just make it clear that anything sexual that happened between you is in the past and your relationship from now on is strictly platonic.
And act like it.
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Reply to TIFU by not telling my partner about my intimate life in the past by HereckMistwalker
You should have been honest with Sabrina from the get go, at least found a way to tell her yourself sooner.
The rest depends on your behavior - were you explicitly platonic with your ex fuck buddies? Then she is projecting her own insecurities on you and that's not ok.
Did you remain flirty and sexual with them? In that case it is on you. You don't have to cut all ties with Jake and Lena, just make it clear that anything sexual that happened between you is in the past and your relationship from now on is strictly platonic. And act like it.