opeathrowaway
opeathrowaway t1_j0wrkow wrote
I’m a psychotherapist, some of the best ways I’ve found to build rapport with clients is to ask what they read and learn about their interests. You can tell a lot about someone’s favorite books and what genre they enjoy. When I was in person I usually had the book I was reading on my desk in the event of spare time and it humanized me to some more distant clients. When they saw me reading the Annihilation series by Van Der Meer they realized I also have a life outside the office and can have a nice casual conversation about ecopolitics and horror. Not only does it help with rapport, but I also can know a tiny bit about a lot of random things when I read widely that turn out applicable to my work. Had a client with a very niche history special interest that happened to align with a book I was listening to at the time, so for coping we talked about reading a chapter before doing the thing they struggled with as a distress management tool.
opeathrowaway t1_iy5atbi wrote
Reply to comment by Ok-Construction9149 in Marking Up Your Books by tolkienfan2759
Quackery by Lydia Kang
The Mystery of the Exploding Teeth by Thomas Morris
It Ended Badly by Jennifer Wright
Rabid by Bill Wasik
Bad Feminist by Roxane Gay
Road to Jonestown by Jeff Guinn
The Upside of Stress by Kelly McGonigal
How to be an Antiracist by Ibram X Kendi
Stamped From the Beginning by Ibram X Kendi
The Body Keeps Score by Bessel can der Kolk
These are just the audiobooks I enjoyed most, might be a nice start. I read lots of clinical psychology and social justice so my picks are rather narrow.
opeathrowaway t1_ixzp11b wrote
Reply to Marking Up Your Books by tolkienfan2759
I mark up all my nonfiction I’m learning from, but not my fiction as I just read them for pleasure.
opeathrowaway t1_iuk5r1j wrote
Reply to comment by South_Honey2705 in Buy your books or use the library more? by Sleepy_Like_Me
We’re in hardcore Midwest misery; tbf the biggest demographic that used the library died off in the last 5 or so years (age + covid) so with that and less and less funding, we’re lucky we have a school and adjacent library for them. The school district went from 2 elementary schools, a middle and high, but now we have all the kids in the high school.
opeathrowaway t1_iuje5ik wrote
Reply to comment by FlyingPurpleUnicorn in Buy your books or use the library more? by Sleepy_Like_Me
The village I’m in has “Covid” hours & “school” hours in place 10am-1pm 2 days a week if the wind blows and the bird snorts at 3:27am on the third Friday of the month and won’t participate in any interlibrary loan, won’t post the catalog or anything schedule updates and if you call during post hours you can’t speak to anyone; forget email.
Basically my county in the US “has” a library in name only. It was absorbed by the high school about 10 years back and it quit being available to the public. Mostly farmers, Amish, and retired illiterate folks that worked at factories long shuddered.
opeathrowaway t1_iuhzzc6 wrote
I don’t have a library, so it’s buy the book in whatever format I want if I want to read it. I’ve been thinking about what to do with my books; when I move I’ll often post stacks that I’ve read and won’t return to on social media and give them away or sell them (a dollar or two or if it’s a friend they’ll get me a coffee or some candy I like). Other books I just donate to goodwill or the local shelter/youth center. There are only a few books I’m holding on to because I love them, that I haul with me from home to home.
opeathrowaway t1_j1m7pmc wrote
Reply to How do you keep track of your I might want to read this list? by boxer_dogs_dance
I create an Amazon wishlist for different genres and that way I can just pull it up and see what’s on my list when I get to an independent bookstore.