I'm of the "what's good for the goose is good for the gander" mindset.
If there has been another man in the mix, it seems fair to have another woman, too.
I also understand that you're not comfortable with it, and this whole thing needs a long serious conversation with your husband.
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I'm of the "what's good for the goose is good for the gander" mindset. If there has been another man in the mix, it seems fair to have another woman, too. I also understand that you're not comfortable with it, and this whole thing needs a long serious conversation with your husband.