niyamaa27
niyamaa27 t1_iu376nh wrote
Reply to comment by zxDanKwan in Whoever said its better to have loved and lost than to never have loved, clearly never dated a narcissist by [deleted]
I agree with this. Coming up on one year of leaving my ex narcissist who love bombed me and revealed his true evil colors that ended in physical abuse and a restraining order. Some days I wish it never happened, but now I know how to spot a narcissist and run far away before they can manipulate and hurt me.
niyamaa27 t1_iu513b4 wrote
Reply to comment by 9Lives_ in Whoever said its better to have loved and lost than to never have loved, clearly never dated a narcissist by [deleted]
If it seems too good to be true, it probably is. Narcissists have a love bombing phase where they reel their victims in, making them feel like they’re loved and cherished. Other things to take note of once they have you in the trap and the mask is off are superiority, making everything a competition, extreme jealousy, gaslighting, belittling, name-calling, weaponizing your past mistakes, never apologizing…the list goes on. Not all of this means they are narcissistic but it absolutely can be a sign.