niko4ever
niko4ever t1_j6hd7y1 wrote
Reply to comment by dumbass__stupid in eli5 what is the point of therapy? by dumbass__stupid
Therapy can help you figure out if there are personal reasons for why you aren't achieving your goals, and how to fix that
It can't tell you what your goals should be, because that's unique for everyone
It also can't help you change things that are outside your control, only to accept them
niko4ever t1_j6dbq1p wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in TIFU: Said something hateful to my husband by [deleted]
So it's your job to pay for groceries?
I know a lot of couples that have completely separate finances, but not any with kids. Especially when one works more or earns more. I guess there's no reason it couldn't be done though.
But it's perfectly normal to want to hold things over his head when he's holding other things over yours.
niko4ever t1_j6d7xcp wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in TIFU: Said something hateful to my husband by [deleted]
>At times he has had to buy groceries and pay for my car payment and such when I don’t get my hours at work. He’s held that over my head many times
You raise a child together but have separate finances? Yeah no wonder it's causing tension between you. Why do you have separate groceries of all things?
niko4ever t1_j4zi0bo wrote
Reply to comment by cookiemonster247 in Tucker Carlson guest dresses as trans teacher with giant prosthetic breasts to ridicule Ontario school drama by Downingst
Of course
niko4ever t1_j4zhx7u wrote
Reply to comment by pulseout in Tucker Carlson guest dresses as trans teacher with giant prosthetic breasts to ridicule Ontario school drama by Downingst
Pretty sure you can get cheap ones for like $50 if you get bad quality foam booba
niko4ever t1_j4gmumm wrote
Reply to comment by bhind45 in Mindy Kaling did not create or write Velma. Why is she taking so much heat? by [deleted]
True, maybe she didn't have a choice in that part
niko4ever t1_j4gdwd7 wrote
Reply to comment by bhind45 in Mindy Kaling did not create or write Velma. Why is she taking so much heat? by [deleted]
Yeah but she could have chosen not to
niko4ever t1_j2726tf wrote
Reply to comment by secrets3xlips in TIFU by trying to take my life by Flashy_Piglet_1781
What the fuck are you talking about, people I know who have had psychosis or schizophrenia might have fuzzy memories or sometimes forget, but it's not an automatic 100% erasure, some have snippets or fragments of it.
niko4ever t1_j063pfa wrote
He should have said he gave it only one and a half, tops
niko4ever t1_j03vlq0 wrote
Reply to comment by beijina in TIFU by telling my young daughter that she had a feral sister who lived in a cage in the attic. by jesseberdinka
Frankly they SHOULD have called CPS and searched the house just in case. What if it was true?
niko4ever t1_j6v7rdq wrote
Reply to comment by Celectionn in TIFU by drinking at a party and ended up with very bad pictures of me taken by Celectionn
In that case, dude, just talk to the police. It's super illegal to take photos of someone against their will when they're naked in a private space like a shower.
Or just threaten them that you'll call the police if they don't delete the photos