In the meantime reach out to local women's shelters, there are many women in need of help to escape abusive situations. You can still transform the lives of many women, they just won't be Afghan. ♥️

Or they ( the grown kids) have debilitating cPTSD and can barely function in society, because of the depression, anxiety, and other effects of the repeated trauma of abuse. Not all people who suffer horrendous abuse inflict it on others when they grow up. Sometimes they continue to be abused in adult life because that's all they think they are worth. A life of suffering because of shitty parents and lack of mental health services. 😢