You just lost your job. You have time to collect unemployment and find a new one. You are not so far behind that you need to liquidate your safety net right now.

Early withdrawals on 401k accounts are subject to a ten percent penalty in most cases, so no. The flowchart says make the minimum debt payments as part of step 0, then get the 401k match (step 2), then pay off high interest debt (step 3) before going back to 401k (step 5). There are other steps, but in this case those are the relevant ones.

401K accts often come with an employer match that makes it worth doing as long as you can pay the minimums on your cc. Also, if you are still employed, you can often take out a loan from the 401K balance. Doesn't help OP now, but those are reasons people do 401K and have cc debt.

She got sentenced recently but doesn't have to report to jail until the spring.