mganga_mzungu
mganga_mzungu OP t1_iuj3857 wrote
Reply to comment by Elegant_Ad_3620 in how do I(21f) tell my mum why I am not picking up the phone by mganga_mzungu
Uff the amount of times I've said that phrase... But NC is definitely going to happen at some point
mganga_mzungu OP t1_iuj32iw wrote
Reply to comment by susgodtraplord in how do I(21f) tell my mum why I am not picking up the phone by mganga_mzungu
Already in therapy, and yes this is exactly what my therapist has said to me before. But since I'm a broke uni student still need the $$ from the fam
mganga_mzungu OP t1_iuj049v wrote
Reply to comment by Jen5872 in how do I(21f) tell my mum why I am not picking up the phone by mganga_mzungu
Ugh... You're right, I feel like I'm just lying to myself thinking there's a way to mediate this
mganga_mzungu OP t1_iuiz4on wrote
Reply to comment by UsuallyWrite2 in how do I(21f) tell my mum why I am not picking up the phone by mganga_mzungu
She's super picky about what words I use... I just think if I say 'not welcome' she will somehow either use that against me or make it an even bigger problem. Honestly I couldn't care less about being on the call or not
mganga_mzungu OP t1_iuiygz8 wrote
Reply to comment by Jen5872 in how do I(21f) tell my mum why I am not picking up the phone by mganga_mzungu
I mean I will tell her that I just need help phrasing it differently... More polite...
mganga_mzungu OP t1_iuixjb1 wrote
Reply to comment by Elegant_Ad_3620 in how do I(21f) tell my mum why I am not picking up the phone by mganga_mzungu
I still rely on them financially as I am in university so I can't mess up... Other wise things will get a bit difficult for me. It's best if I stay on good terms
mganga_mzungu OP t1_iuix83q wrote
Reply to comment by UsuallyWrite2 in how do I(21f) tell my mum why I am not picking up the phone by mganga_mzungu
I know this sounds exactly like what I should do, it just wouldn't go over very well. Think if it as if I need to speak in work language.
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mganga_mzungu OP t1_iuj47co wrote
Reply to comment by susgodtraplord in how do I(21f) tell my mum why I am not picking up the phone by mganga_mzungu
School only provides unpaid internships. And I don't really have time to work as my uni is a bit different than most and I'm usually at uni from 8am to 8pm mon-sat. I don't have insurance but I do pay for health care through the student union.