maxanderson350

maxanderson350 t1_jdvkuo9 wrote

The NIMBY problem in CT is far more extensive than merely concern about poor people - even developments for well-off people are routinely attacked and blocked in CT.

A solution I would like to see implemented in CT is a law preventing people from suing to stop or hold-up town-approved or supported developments.

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maxanderson350 t1_j6e9dq6 wrote

We had to do that - we sat for month after month with zero communication from our worker at one point (immediately prior to approval) and had to complain. Another time, we were approved but our worker forgot to book us "in the book" and thus we sat for nearly 6 months without a single call about a placement.

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maxanderson350 t1_j6dx4c8 wrote

I have years of experience as foster parent/foster-to-adopt parents with CT DCF. If you are dealing with DCF in the same capacity, just know that patient is necessarily. The agency is very dysfunctional and extremely slow and exceptionally frustrating to deal with. Our impression over the years is that the agency simply does not care about placing children. I could go on for days about this....

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maxanderson350 t1_j640gvl wrote

I think your problem will be too many options, not whether such a place exists.

My top choice would be Greenwich, particularly Old Greenwich - very family friendly, easy train to the city (driving wouldn't be easy though, from anywhere), progressive, very safe, and beautiful.

For something less expensive, I'd opt for Fairfield or Milford, both of which are great towns and more diverse as well. Ridgefield is also great but not as convenient. Guilford and Madison too.

Farther afield, places like West Harford, Simsbury and Avon are excellent as well.

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maxanderson350 t1_j5vmgf0 wrote

Good schools, easy access to the airport and 91 (if you like to go to VT), charming setting, lots of good hiking opportunities.

The only negative I've heard about the town is that it covers a big area - so while parts of granby are reasonably accessible to Hartford/Springfield, others are more distant and remote. That may be a good thing or a bad thing depending upon your perspective.

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maxanderson350 t1_j5702er wrote

Perhaps that is how they are using the term. But if the term "indigenous" is being used solely to convey the inhabitants of land prior to being conquered then Europe, Asia, and the Middle East would have an almost unlimited number of indigenous peoples.

I'm not sure I understand any distinction though regarding spending "a lot of time conquering and killing each other" as I wouldn't assume the Americans were any different.

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maxanderson350 t1_j55oj2q wrote

Thank you very much for sharing the link. A few things I noticed on the website that I found interesting:

  1. Europe, Asia, and the Middle East are more or less empty of indigenous peoples. I found that particularly odd because those are the parts of the world historians know the most about due to extensive records and archeological finds.
  2. From a quick review of CT tribes, it does appear that this is a map not of the "original" peoples of Connecticut but rather the people who the European settlers found. I consider "original" misleading because, for example, while the Tunxis were found living along the Farmington River by Europeans in the early 1600s, there is no basis to believe (and seems quite far-fetched to suggest) that the Tunxis were in fact the "original" people of that land. Simply put, the idea that the land did not change hands over thousands of years is hard to believe.
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