Someone else’s hurry has no impact on my desire to avoid smashing my car.

Consider boarding schools. There are several in Vermont and neighboring states. You’ll get housing and all meals, and you’ll get to bank most of your salary, though it may be less than a comparable job at a day school. You can bolster your earnings with tutoring gigs. May get free or significantly reduced tuition as well, for your little ones. You will also work a lot.