Incubus - Pardon Me Actually, a lot of songs by incubus have a similar sound. Some Soundgarden songs as well, like outshined or rusty cage. Just look for grunge bands. I believe that is the sound you are looking for.

Well, sounds like you want to. If you do, cool. But don't feel pressured. That's not cool. To be honest, you really can't mess this up. Some of the other advice here is good for learning. If you want any explanations on any of it, pm me and I will explain. 😂

Have a great time!

Honey, you do you and never, EVER let someone force you or guilt you into doing something you aren't ready for. The time will come where you will be comfortable enough with someone to experiment.

Castlevania maybe?

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This is amazing advice.

Maybe they are friends and not just coworkers?

There's always a small possibility that it will, but a couple of things to try come to mind. 1) counseling if you think it is worth it. 2) maybe let them know that this is something you need, and ask them to come up with creative ways to do it. For instance, setting a reminder to text flirts. Messages can be scheduled, so they could do a bunch in advance. Make it part of their routine. I know it sounds cold, but it can actually set them up for success if they take it to heart. They could start branching out and researching ways to do it. Find phrases they like on sites and send them to you with something like, "saw this and thought of you." They just have to get creative and see it as a challenge that is worth it. Reward the behavior you want, and that turns into a recipe for success.

Everyone is different. Some people would say yes and some would say no. For me, words hold weight so I would have a problem, but there are different "love languages."