jiggamain

jiggamain t1_j5or8hi wrote

Go back and read the original comment, pls and stop being a contrarian jerk in life. Their first comment is clear and leaves room for both to be true. You come off like an ass with this comment, consider deleting? Will save others the time I wasted going back to reread (and will keep others from going back, rereading, and figuring out that your reading compression leaves something to be desired…

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jiggamain t1_ixhh5uc wrote

Paraphrasing above… I gave her a test I knew she would fail, and locked her in a room when she did not pass.

Ya, no. 19 is plenty mature enough not to be an abusive asshole. This kind of predatory behavior doesn’t just magically go away with age. This person needs accountability and a healthy dose of therapy. The fact that you are defending them indicates you could use some therapy too (and indicates you should not be trusted around kids either).

It’s not normal for people of any age to treat children this way. Maturity is not a cure all for cruelty.

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jiggamain t1_ixhemmh wrote

Wow, dude, you are a danger to that kid. Invest in some self reflection now. Nobody gives AF about your trauma if you use it as an excuse to be an absolute fucking monster and traumatize someone else. It sounds like you got off easy by only being banned from some family events. I would never look at you the same if you were my relative.

Beyond being a horrible semi uncle. If this behavior had been told to someone with a duty to report your not quite niece’s family could have faced a serious investigation.

One more thing, if you have a “sour” relationship with an 8 yo, YOU are the problem. They are 8, and at this point you are a fucking adult. I guarantee you your family didn’t get the full story from her, you better hope they never find this post and connect the dots.

Get some counseling now, what you are describing is abuse - get help breaking the cycle of violence you are in.

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