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itgoesdownandup t1_je021bm wrote
Reply to comment by bigflagellum in LPT: Do not fall for the whole pursue "working for your dream company" idea. You will be so much better off if you have a wonderful, respectful, considerate boss at some normal business who actually values and respects you/your work, and allows you to become successful and proficient in your field. by Dismal_Body_2731
You didn't. I wrote my comment that way because it was sorta to probe your brain I guess. In my first comment I was asking why it matters. And in the second I was pointing that people can still have the knowledge and it can be weird if you are are just saying she's dumb. You replied I said we were cool. So I'm sorry if I said something upsetting. I guess it was being accusatory, so it makes sense why it could be. I'm not really triggered. The comment was vague, and it's not unheard of for people to think doing onlyfans or whatever = dumb.
My understanding of wisdom is the definition you used? I didn't add anything to it. I talked about knowledge being an aspect of wisdom and I pointed out your definition literally said knowledge as well?
itgoesdownandup t1_jdzyohg wrote
Reply to comment by bigflagellum in LPT: Do not fall for the whole pursue "working for your dream company" idea. You will be so much better off if you have a wonderful, respectful, considerate boss at some normal business who actually values and respects you/your work, and allows you to become successful and proficient in your field. by Dismal_Body_2731
Uhh yeah what I'm saying was never about whether it was copy and paste or not. I said that in the beginning that it was, and that's not really a counter to my point. I'm saying it's just a little sus to be like saying people are dumb because of something they do. I mean I get maybe you are saying you are surprised that she knows this due to age and what is the only profession of hers we know of. And that's why I was writing it like saying it kinda sounds like you were calling her dumb or that you can't be wise and have an onlyfans, but from this I think you are just saying it's from age and work. Not that she's dumb. So we cool.
Also that's a list. Knowledge is included. What's written first doesn't even matter.
itgoesdownandup t1_jdzufjv wrote
Reply to comment by bigflagellum in LPT: Do not fall for the whole pursue "working for your dream company" idea. You will be so much better off if you have a wonderful, respectful, considerate boss at some normal business who actually values and respects you/your work, and allows you to become successful and proficient in your field. by Dismal_Body_2731
I mean you don't just learn wisdom from experience purely. She could've learnt it elsewhere and on top of that onlyfans isn't usually just someone sole way to get income. I'm more just having a problem that it feels weird to be like, "where did she get this wisdom from. She does onlyfans." Kinda just makes it sound like you are calling them dumb. Also I mean yeah I agree it's copy and paste in fact your original comment was worded as a question so in my last comment I was telling you it was a copy and paste lol
itgoesdownandup t1_jdztpuu wrote
Reply to comment by Neo_Arsonist in LPT: Do not fall for the whole pursue "working for your dream company" idea. You will be so much better off if you have a wonderful, respectful, considerate boss at some normal business who actually values and respects you/your work, and allows you to become successful and proficient in your field. by Dismal_Body_2731
I know that. But they are saying they are 20 with an onlyfans where are they getting this wisdom. And I'm saying what does having an onlyfans have to do with obtaining wisdom.
itgoesdownandup t1_jdzaoe6 wrote
Reply to comment by bigflagellum in LPT: Do not fall for the whole pursue "working for your dream company" idea. You will be so much better off if you have a wonderful, respectful, considerate boss at some normal business who actually values and respects you/your work, and allows you to become successful and proficient in your field. by Dismal_Body_2731
Why does her having an onlyfans matter? I mean this is copy and pasted, but like people with only fans can like have wisdom
itgoesdownandup t1_jdzaicz wrote
Reply to comment by Penis_Bees in LPT: Do not fall for the whole pursue "working for your dream company" idea. You will be so much better off if you have a wonderful, respectful, considerate boss at some normal business who actually values and respects you/your work, and allows you to become successful and proficient in your field. by Dismal_Body_2731
Yeah, I don't know if it's specifically saying small businesses are better. But it does feel weird since I feel like most dream jobs are literally about being so good in terms of comfort and luxury. I mean I guess it's something to keep in mind still.
itgoesdownandup t1_jcri9db wrote
Reply to comment by 8923ns671 in LPT: Let people know HOW YOU FEEL on the spot if they wronged you by Zoma456
Yeah, I would say that doesn't sound healthy. Honestly something I would think to talk to a therapist about if you are able of course.
itgoesdownandup t1_j8c8rfp wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in LPT: Wear Earplugs everywhere when reasonably possible. by Longjumping-Basil-74
It's a joke
itgoesdownandup OP t1_j6pjvli wrote
Reply to comment by Shizz-happens in LPT request: How do I overcome the freedom and anxiety of having to begin a new day? by itgoesdownandup
Not really no. My best guess is probably when I'm just into the task. Again not really sure. Kinda just fighting and doing until things start looking alright.
My hobbies. Video games, TV, manga, and movies. Granted I do this stuff in the day as well, but it feels more special when compared to what sleeping and getting the new day. And also my mind feels completely at ease and can be left alone as well
itgoesdownandup OP t1_j6mp4fl wrote
Reply to comment by Fresh_Pomelo8842 in LPT request: How do I overcome the freedom and anxiety of having to begin a new day? by itgoesdownandup
I'm in therapy already. I've talked with my therapist about it before well I think at least, but I don't remember what she said at all in all honesty. I was going to talk about it with her again, but in the meantime I'm just seeing if people know any coping methods so I can sleep for an hour or two before having to wake up for my day lol
itgoesdownandup t1_je1va52 wrote
Reply to comment by bigflagellum in LPT: Do not fall for the whole pursue "working for your dream company" idea. You will be so much better off if you have a wonderful, respectful, considerate boss at some normal business who actually values and respects you/your work, and allows you to become successful and proficient in your field. by Dismal_Body_2731
Might be done with the conversation which is fine and I'm not trying to start anything anyways. I just came here because I thought I should also apologize for not writing my apology sooner. I wrote my apology about how it was accusatory and upsetting, but I think it's worth saying I'm sorry about not writing it earlier. I could've written the apology earlier if I thought more about your perspective. So sorry for not doing so.