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incasesheisonheretoo t1_jca48yz wrote

If you can’t find a commercial one, the next time you’re at a restaurant that has sliced eggs in one of their dishes, offer the waitress or another low paid employee cash to buy one. I know when I worked food service, I would’ve happily swiped one from the kitchen for you for $20. We had a few, so one missing wouldn’t have been immediately noticed.

Also, only use it for eggs. There are other gadgets meant for slicing veggies, and an egg slicer isn’t one of them.

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incasesheisonheretoo t1_j9wcsiv wrote

A good therapist can really help! I was totally against it for years and chose alcohol to deal with social situations. Now I am listening to social anxiety podcasts, reading self help books, and seeing a therapist a couple times a month to talk through it. It’s working. I also got a prescription for propanolol from my doctor to help with public speaking, and this helps keep my body from exhibiting the social anxiety symptoms that cripple me when I have to speak in front of a group. I also recently tried phenibut, and even though it works, I would never recommend it to others due to its high potential for addiction and the horrible withdrawal that many users report.

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incasesheisonheretoo t1_j9erba4 wrote

Same. I’ve tried all of the tricks, but my body needs a solid 8 hours for me to feel halfway decent in the morning. The only way to get it is to get in a routine of going to bed earlier each night. To do so, I had to tolerate about a week of forcing myself up early feeling like crap all day so that I’d be tired and ready for bed earlier.

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incasesheisonheretoo t1_j92fm7c wrote

My gf and I do this for each other. We each order something that we think we both may like and sample from each other’s plates. It helps us try new things because we don’t have to worry about one of us being stuck with something we don’t like.

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incasesheisonheretoo t1_j5z5g7i wrote

Or just don’t argue with anyone. Most people can’t be convinced to change their opinions. Speak your mind when appropriate, but unless someone is showing that they’re interested in a rational debate of facts and ideas, walk away when they start arguing without providing reliably sourced facts. I’ve learned that most people either make up facts (or get them from memes on social media) or use anecdotal evidence to back up their nonsense.

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incasesheisonheretoo t1_j5fxv5x wrote

Good point! My boss’s perception is the only one that matters (in my situation), and he can see what time I got there and should expect me to leave before everyone else. But I’ve also worked at places where your advice applies because coworkers started getting resentful watching me leave 2 hours before them every day- even though I got there 2 hours before them.

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incasesheisonheretoo t1_j5ewbqh wrote

Yep! And I typically get to avoid rush hour by leaving earlier, saving me another 30+ minutes of sitting in traffic. I also get to utilize OP’s tip because my lunch break is an hour before everyone else’s. So when I come back from mine, most of them are leaving for theirs and I get some more time to myself.

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incasesheisonheretoo t1_j5eqqhn wrote

This is one of the reasons people love WFH so much. My boss has no idea what I’m doing throughout the day. As long as my output reflects 40 hours worth of work each week, they don’t know (nor probably even care) when and how long my lunch is. It’s also the reason a lot of bad bosses hate WFH- they can’t micromanage an employee’s time as easily (unless it’s a job where you’re on camera or the phone all day).

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incasesheisonheretoo t1_j5cj1ng wrote

If you have that kind of control over your work schedule, a better tip is to go in well before everyone else. I go in at 6 and leave at 3. Most people, my boss included, don’t get in until 8 or 9- which gives me a couple of hours in peace before the emails and meeting requests start rolling in. Even better, by the time they arrive and are just getting situated, I’m already in gear looking like I’m a much higher performer than I really am lol. They don’t know that I was taking it easy for those first couple of hours that no one else was there.

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