stunning piece, thanks for sharing

in general even if it was completely true that’s still way past expired as something you can bring up. harboring things like this and calling them out of the blue way down the line is just hurtful and not constructive. if you have a problem express it right away or you pretty much lose your right to, things like this are much more hurtful to hear after the fact because nothing can be done about it. then they also have to assume that you have just been resenting them the whole time for it. not trying to make you feel any worse about the situation but that’s just not healthy communication even if it was truthful. i’m sure if you try to explain to him that other factors were at play like him sleeping late, and explain that it was just misplaced anger he will probably understand.