coffeeandlattee
coffeeandlattee OP t1_jae24a3 wrote
Reply to comment by Coconut_Waffles in LPT Requests: How to get over being left out? by coffeeandlattee
No, I’ve been working with her for years.
Basically, she invited everyone except for me. The other people who didn’t get invited were hired on after the invites were send out.
coffeeandlattee OP t1_jae04qk wrote
Reply to comment by sephiroth3650 in LPT Requests: How to get over being left out? by coffeeandlattee
Thank you! This is encouraging.
coffeeandlattee OP t1_jadu7ii wrote
Reply to comment by loomdog1 in LPT Requests: How to get over being left out? by coffeeandlattee
Yep! I think that’s why I am so empathetic. I don’t ever want anyone to feel left out. I am hyper aware when some else is feeling out of the loop.
coffeeandlattee OP t1_jadtz00 wrote
Reply to comment by sephiroth3650 in LPT Requests: How to get over being left out? by coffeeandlattee
I know and you’re right. The rational and logical side of me tells me same thing.
The emotional side of me keeps wondering why she invited people who are equally just not as close. I don’t feel left out, I am being left out.
I know I don’t deserve an explanation. But have you ever been left? It hurts so much and I keep thinking negatively about myself.
coffeeandlattee OP t1_jaedkeb wrote
Reply to comment by Crystalraf in LPT Requests: How to get over being left out? by coffeeandlattee
100% I will never exclude anyone. I’m extremely empathic and can pick up when someone is feeling left out. I always want everyone to feel welcomed.
It’s surprising how unaware some people are… or they really just don’t care.