It sounds like he has depression. I would kindly ask him how he is doing and if there’s anything you can do to help him. Try to get him out of the house by offering to do his favorite things with him. Suggest he tries counseling because you hate seeing him like this make sure to be gentle and let him know how much you love and care about him. It might be good for you to go to counseling too for two reasons 1. You can vent your frustration about this situation and receive effective solutions and advice 2. It might inspire your boyfriend to go if he sees you going. I hope it works out for you two!
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It sounds like he has depression. I would kindly ask him how he is doing and if there’s anything you can do to help him. Try to get him out of the house by offering to do his favorite things with him. Suggest he tries counseling because you hate seeing him like this make sure to be gentle and let him know how much you love and care about him. It might be good for you to go to counseling too for two reasons 1. You can vent your frustration about this situation and receive effective solutions and advice 2. It might inspire your boyfriend to go if he sees you going. I hope it works out for you two!