Tell him "I can't afford to keep buying all of this stuff for you. I like you and see a family with you too, but I can't afford to keep buying you all the stuff you ask me for. It's starting to feel like I'm a bank for you instead of a partner."

If he's serious about you, he should be receptive to how you feel here or have some sort of valid explanation as to why this happened. If he gets mad at you, think about this: why is he mad at you that you don't spend your own hard-earned money on him? Is this someone you really want to be with if this is how he looks at your money and opinions?

Dating someone you met at the bar isn't the problem, the problem is you went and married a red flag factory.

There are plenty of people at the bars who are NOTHING like this. You married someone who is incompatible with you, and I don't understand why you did this. You need to leave. You need to repair your relationship with your parents by explaining who he is. You need to move out on your own.

Your husband cannot read your mind, even at 7 years of marriage. Ask to talk to him in private and tell him what is going on in the moment. If you explain the issue, he would have an easier time understanding the problem and solution. Right now, all he knows is you didn't eat much and you're mad at him.

As someone who has parents, understand this: they forget what they learned about pregnancy and development pretty fast. Kids are a whirlwind. She also had different information in her time, which probably promoted eating vegetables straight from the dirt or something for added minerals. I have a hard time believing there was any real malice.