The answer is always Ghosts

Do not combine finances with someone who's still supporting his ex. She sounds like she just wanted to come to America to live, and he was at least smart enough to realize that when she was here. Why is he still sending her money? He can do whatever he wants with his own money, but you don't want yours going to another woman too.

Can you see an actual future with this man? Does he make you truly happy? Will you always be distrustful of him and could you continue to be with someone when you have those doubts?