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bitofrock t1_j1eal2h wrote
Reply to comment by xdqz in [IMAGE] sometimes you just need to not care by Th3MysticArcher
Absolutely. It's a definite problem for people.
bitofrock t1_j1as7ru wrote
Reply to comment by LolaMent0 in [IMAGE] sometimes you just need to not care by Th3MysticArcher
Well done on doing that. The forces can be a great route for the right people.
bitofrock t1_j18m2ba wrote
Reply to comment by InsaneChihuahua in [IMAGE] sometimes you just need to not care by Th3MysticArcher
It's worth hanging around the personal finance groups for your country. I know the UK one has really solid advice, but the UK is quite tightly regulated on these things.
bitofrock t1_j17ogly wrote
Reply to comment by conspiracydawg in [IMAGE] sometimes you just need to not care by Th3MysticArcher
Oh, and thanks for asking. How are you getting on?
bitofrock t1_j17ofah wrote
Reply to comment by MystikIncarnate in [IMAGE] sometimes you just need to not care by Th3MysticArcher
You sound to me like someone who is, however, facing and acknowledging their fears.
Try not to live like a monk, but now work to increase your income at each opportunity. Work like an immigrant. Make yourself a financial safety net. Once you know you can survive a year, or even a few months, without work you're starting to be able to relax.
Take every training program or government scheme or tax break/benefit you can get. Don't be too humble.
I went from poor terror to comfortable, and possibly am a paper millionaire now. I spent years working out how I'd reach the end of the month.
And I'm sorry to hear about your Dad. I know people in this sort of situation and it's been so tough for them. But it really does get better if you just grasp your opportunities, take am active interest in your work, and crack on.
bitofrock t1_j17nr7c wrote
Reply to comment by InsaneChihuahua in [IMAGE] sometimes you just need to not care by Th3MysticArcher
Check out personal finance subs about the path to financial independence. Once you achieve that the risks become easier to take. I spent twenty years working towards it.
bitofrock t1_j17nodb wrote
Reply to comment by PeterTinkle in [IMAGE] sometimes you just need to not care by Th3MysticArcher
Yeah, I was a victim of bad circumstances and needed to make sure they didn't get worse.
Winner mentality, risk it all on red style, can bring massive success but you just don't hear from the failures.
I'm old enough to know people who claimed to be making a fortune on crypto or forex or back in the late nineties with tech shares. Yet so often their lifestyle doesn't change and they one day go quiet. If pressed, some tell you they lost a pile. Then, as a result of the burn, they don't try again. That's loser mentality.
bitofrock t1_j17nebw wrote
Reply to comment by conspiracydawg in [IMAGE] sometimes you just need to not care by Th3MysticArcher
Pretty good! I worked on basic stability for the first ten years of my career, preferring a stable job in a corporate. That gave me, eventually, a skillset that was hot in the late nineties job market.
I also by then had a girlfriend and we had a house that was pleasant but not a big stretch. I then worked ten years contracting but although I enjoyed some pf the extra money I banked plenty and resisted big liabilities I saw some colleagues take on. I banked plenty.
Which meant I could take the next risk. Starting a business. Bootstrapped as other people's capital (like VCs) wouldn't have been available to me at that stage. The business made an effective loss for me for years but nowadays, another decade and a half, it's running well.
I'm by no means rich. Setting up a business, unless you snaffle an amazing sector, rarely makes you a millionaire. You can't spend loads either. You just have to work it hard and nurture something bigger. Eventually though it starts to mature.
So you can see how I've grabbed opportunities and climbed gently, avoiding the steep and risky route until I was ready to step it up a little.
bitofrock t1_j15ncxq wrote
Aaah, the pleasure of failing when it isn't a big risk to you.
When you're poor, failure can mean living on the streets. You simply can't take that many risks. I had friends who would try and get me to take risks, but if it all went wrong they had their parents to stay with. I had nobody.
So I didn't fear people laughing at me for failing. I feared being destitute.
bitofrock t1_izt35ga wrote
Reply to comment by Vex1om in [OC] Yearly Average Temperature in the UK, 1884 - 2021 by PieChartPirate
We could stop using huge amounts of oil to create the huge amounts of food required to feed cattle that become our beef meat. And pets. Dear God, why are we buying carnivores as pets? We can do so much that would help and all we'll miss out on are cheap beef burgers. I can handle that.
bitofrock t1_izt2rug wrote
Reply to comment by Maxathron in [OC] Yearly Average Temperature in the UK, 1884 - 2021 by PieChartPirate
We cut the forests down in Britain a looong time ago and have been growing more in recent years. Urbanisation in the UK has barely changed in the last fifty years, so the correlation is poor.
Of course, if you can suggest that we're taking more measurents in cities than in rural spaces than we did them you might have a point. Are we?
bitofrock t1_iv7bmhw wrote
Reply to comment by AftyOfTheUK in TIL the former members of Timbuk 3 have refused to license the song "The Future's So Bright, I Gotta Wear Shades" for commercials, including a $900,000 offer from AT&T and offers from Ford, the U.S. Army, and Bausch & Lomb for their Ray-Ban sunglasses. by big_macaroons
I guess because some people really need to live the idea that everything corporate is evil by default?
bitofrock t1_iv7bis8 wrote
Reply to comment by TrowAway2736 in TIL the former members of Timbuk 3 have refused to license the song "The Future's So Bright, I Gotta Wear Shades" for commercials, including a $900,000 offer from AT&T and offers from Ford, the U.S. Army, and Bausch & Lomb for their Ray-Ban sunglasses. by big_macaroons
They seem like a pretty big company. If they're winging it on music rights the bills are usually pretty impressive. I do work with image licensing and have seen bills for $5000 per image from Getty. They're vicious. I doubt music firms are any less generous.
bitofrock t1_iuzx1k7 wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in TIL the former members of Timbuk 3 have refused to license the song "The Future's So Bright, I Gotta Wear Shades" for commercials, including a $900,000 offer from AT&T and offers from Ford, the U.S. Army, and Bausch & Lomb for their Ray-Ban sunglasses. by big_macaroons
So you're saying O'Reilly, a major publisher, decides to just wing it? On what basis?
bitofrock t1_iuy16na wrote
Reply to comment by TheExpandingMan23977 in TIL the former members of Timbuk 3 have refused to license the song "The Future's So Bright, I Gotta Wear Shades" for commercials, including a $900,000 offer from AT&T and offers from Ford, the U.S. Army, and Bausch & Lomb for their Ray-Ban sunglasses. by big_macaroons
Nah...music licensing is pretty straightforward. And expensive if you don't do it properly.
bitofrock t1_iu1heh9 wrote
Reply to comment by lughnasadh in Astronomers have outlined how the JWST may be able to detect the biosignatures of extraterrestrial life in Earth sized planets orbiting the 15 nearest White Dwarf stars. by lughnasadh
I sometimes wonder which other scientific projects have been named after biscuits...
bitofrock t1_j42etdr wrote
Reply to comment by WhalesVirginia in Why are coastlines crinkly near the poles but smooth in the tropics? by emsot
Uhm, the thing about science is that the only way to improve on the science is more science.
An opinion or pointing out a possible flaw doesn't advance science, but may be a part of future science that advances things further.
But if you don't have a solid grasp on the science done so far, then you're just having opinions that are unlikely to make much of an impact or be considered unless you have substantial credentials in the field.