beautyandrage25
beautyandrage25 OP t1_jaeirsi wrote
Reply to comment by Ambrose-DH in Advice: I am a 26 (F) who’s been in a situationship with a 28 (M) saying I’m the reason he hasn’t committed after one year. by beautyandrage25
This is honestly the best advice I’ve gotten on these comments. Thank you. I want to work on myself but the fears hurt so much. I genuinely want him to be happy. I’m going to reflect on your advice. Thank you
beautyandrage25 OP t1_jaei71c wrote
Reply to comment by tickleyourfanny in Advice: I am a 26 (F) who’s been in a situationship with a 28 (M) saying I’m the reason he hasn’t committed after one year. by beautyandrage25
I live with my abuser and have seemed professional help. On top of that due to my means; I have no way to leave my current living situation. I’m surviving currently.
beautyandrage25 OP t1_jaei2da wrote
Reply to comment by VanMan32 in Advice: I am a 26 (F) who’s been in a situationship with a 28 (M) saying I’m the reason he hasn’t committed after one year. by beautyandrage25
I’ve tried to get professional help but I live with my trauma abuser. When I try to pull away he threatens to call the police on that person. He’s the first person I’ve told of the stuff going on at home
beautyandrage25 OP t1_jaehw8t wrote
Reply to comment by dollyviciousx in Advice: I am a 26 (F) who’s been in a situationship with a 28 (M) saying I’m the reason he hasn’t committed after one year. by beautyandrage25
Because I feel so scared of him non-commitment I start finding reasons why we shouldn’t be together
beautyandrage25 OP t1_jaehdrj wrote
Reply to comment by tickleyourfanny in Advice: I am a 26 (F) who’s been in a situationship with a 28 (M) saying I’m the reason he hasn’t committed after one year. by beautyandrage25
Work on myself by myself?
beautyandrage25 OP t1_jaehbp4 wrote
Reply to comment by JellyfishGod in Advice: I am a 26 (F) who’s been in a situationship with a 28 (M) saying I’m the reason he hasn’t committed after one year. by beautyandrage25
I find reasons why I shouldn’t be with him. I’ve genuinely said my actions towards him come across toxic and I need to work on myself
beautyandrage25 OP t1_jaegxmp wrote
Reply to comment by VanMan32 in Advice: I am a 26 (F) who’s been in a situationship with a 28 (M) saying I’m the reason he hasn’t committed after one year. by beautyandrage25
I find reasons why we wouldn’t work out
beautyandrage25 OP t1_jaejcay wrote
Reply to comment by tickleyourfanny in Advice: I am a 26 (F) who’s been in a situationship with a 28 (M) saying I’m the reason he hasn’t committed after one year. by beautyandrage25
Working on it. My abuser put me 10k in debt, micromanages my life, and so on. The first out I find I’m going to take.