ayylmao2016
ayylmao2016 t1_jadc7pq wrote
Fair or not one or both of those guys wants to sleep with you and your boyfriend knows it. That's a struggle for any insecure young man.how will you react if one of them starts hitting on you during an overnight camping trip. What if one of these guys is an old flame. Why would a woman want to go camping overnight with two guys she hasn't seen since high school. Who knows what other questions he can dream up. I'm not saying don't have friends, just a few things to consider.
ayylmao2016 t1_j6ob1hu wrote
Reply to Should I 25F continue talking to this guy 25M to see if he changes. by Universitygotmecrazy
Is it really so crazy to be all "Netflix and chill?" From him after three weeks of dancing around it? He probably thought it was time to make a move. At the very least I don't thinks it's that far out of left field. As for dating, how are you not dating after all this time and all the chats? In any event its pretty clear that you aren't interested. He will most likely give up soon if you don't have a straightforward conversation about what yall are doing.
ayylmao2016 t1_j2chths wrote
Whether anything sexual happened is irrelevant, any time she gets to feeling "lonely and isolated" you will have another incident on your hands and eventually she will stop confessing and just leave you in the dark. You couldn't trust her alone for a couple weeks without this happening.
ayylmao2016 t1_iye0bs7 wrote
Reply to My boyfriend never does the ‘little things’ by Bells131
This is what the beginning of the relationship is for, learning about each other and what to expect. You talk about how wonderful he is and then point to a clear cut case of him not being that. It's never fun to realize that things aren't going to work out, but that's what it means to get to know someone on that deeper level. He has shown you, consistently, what to expect from the relationship. You have responded to this knowledge with unhappiness. He responded to your unhappiness with a short term fix that led right back to the original problem. As it always will, because that's who he is.
ayylmao2016 t1_iujq6xq wrote
Take my upvote you deranged son of a bitch
ayylmao2016 t1_jae9cqj wrote
Reply to My (28f) boyfriend (28m) told me to "shut the fuck up" while gaming by [deleted]
If this is how he acts now it will most likely get much worse once you are locked down together by a lease, and one of you has nowhere to go. You are correct in assuming this will escalate.