> I told him I’m okay with doing this but that I want to work a year in my field (I’m a new graduate) before doing so, So that I have connections in our home country.
Completely reasonable. If you can't get on the same page, you can always consider doing ld for this time.
airaqua t1_j6nb7ex wrote
Reply to TL;DR Boyfriend (29M) wants to do a year abroad. I (25F) am not against it but want to be responsible by [deleted]
> I told him I’m okay with doing this but that I want to work a year in my field (I’m a new graduate) before doing so, So that I have connections in our home country.
Completely reasonable. If you can't get on the same page, you can always consider doing ld for this time.