agarimoo
agarimoo t1_jadg09f wrote
Reply to I keep end up disliking good films simply because all the characters are sad degenerate fucks and I hate them for it. Is there a trick to liking these kinds of films? by KellyKellogs
If you don’t have a problem with movies that start with what you describe as a sympathetic character that, through difficult circumstances, turns into a cunt, think about the circumstances that turned all those characters you dislike into cunts. Maybe that will help you understand them and not want to torture them.
Charlie Babbit in Rain Man was an orphan raised by a very dismissive father (whose description fits the one of a narcissist) separated from his brother without even being told about it. Of course he was going to turn into a selfish person, that’s what he learned! He learned that the world is a hard place and he can count on no one but himself. You could ask yourself why do you hate him so much when he’s just a regular dude unlike the other murderous characters you listed.
I mean, do you realise you’re asking this character to show compassion while you’re showing none towards him and want him “to be ripped apart limb by limb”?
agarimoo t1_jacwuip wrote
Reply to comment by NBAccount in I keep end up disliking good films simply because all the characters are sad degenerate fucks and I hate them for it. Is there a trick to liking these kinds of films? by KellyKellogs
Op needs to do A LOT of shadow work
agarimoo t1_ja5ok43 wrote
Reply to comment by Antaries9000 in Unpredictable childhood environments linked to food addiction in adulthood by chrisdh79
Thank you for sharing your story. I believe food addiction is way more common than we think but people are just ashamed to talk about it so, hearing other people’s stories always helps. I’m so glad you got over it and I hope your health is great now. Have a lovely day
agarimoo t1_ja47chh wrote
Reply to comment by Antaries9000 in Unpredictable childhood environments linked to food addiction in adulthood by chrisdh79
I’m (positively) surprised you didn’t find it difficult. I’m dealing with some health issues right no and even if I know I should stay away from gluten, sugar and dairy I still find it so hard to resist. Can you share any tips?
agarimoo t1_jef1wby wrote
Reply to A gorgeous red rock & red sky evening in Sedona, Arizona [OC][1237x1900] by takepacific
The colours are stunning ✨️