abnormalaf
abnormalaf OP t1_jacyqiq wrote
Reply to comment by UsuallyWrite2 in Anyone have success dialing back a relationship? (28 F 30 M) by abnormalaf
Hmmm. I have a lot to think about
abnormalaf OP t1_jacvk53 wrote
Reply to comment by tryingmybset in Anyone have success dialing back a relationship? (28 F 30 M) by abnormalaf
I 100% will be honest. I guess I was just hoping there was a better way to say it... Like some verbiage I could use that still makes him feel cared for rather than it being his fault somehow. He tends to take any issue and make it his fault, even if I'm apologizing or being accountable too
abnormalaf OP t1_jacv7kf wrote
Reply to comment by UsuallyWrite2 in Anyone have success dialing back a relationship? (28 F 30 M) by abnormalaf
By dial it back I mean the part where I said "slow back down to more of a talking phase" rather than an official relationship.
Girlfriend duties as in: spending all my free time with him, having to be intimate, etc. Essentially his expectations for me as a girlfriend
abnormalaf OP t1_jacutmy wrote
Reply to comment by AITA-TA-unwanted in Anyone have success dialing back a relationship? (28 F 30 M) by abnormalaf
You're right, he might leave. But I don't want to have sex or be FWB. That's part of what I no longer want to feel pressured to do. I really feel like I want to know him a lot deeper before continuing to share my body and life with him. He definitely has the right to say "no thanks" and find someone else
Submitted by abnormalaf t3_11e9cen in relationship_advice
abnormalaf OP t1_jadqu4x wrote
Reply to comment by EntshuldigungOK in Anyone have success dialing back a relationship? (28 F 30 M) by abnormalaf
This is perfection. Thanks you’re an Angel