"whaats goooing ooon?" Lol dont play dumb, that guy wants to fuck you and you want him to, that how most affairs start, then you Will play victim "i didn't knoooowwww" yes you know exactly whats happening , if you are unhappy talk to your bf, either end the relationship and go fuck this other guy or fix the relationship but dont cheat and play dumb "idk just kinda happened, didnt think was going to happen Boo Hoo" classic Cheater bs. Seems like you are in a path of cheating because of the resentment you have for your bf not expending More Time with you. You are still on Time to do the right thing