He wants you to know he has options. He wants you to feel insecure, like you have to fight to stay relevant in this relationship.

Honestly? He's 33 and this is high-school mean-girl behaviour.

Dump him. You're worthy of so much more.

This isn't laziness. This is severe depression.

This young man went from doing everything you expected of a partner to sleeping for two days at a time without eating.

Laziness doesn't make you stop eating. Depression does.

He needs help.