Of course, hope you can heal from the trauma of that night and that your partner understands, it's hard being vulnerable , but even harder when you are forced into it by drugs. Have a good day , I hope :)

It really isn't though , I'm sorry you had some bad experiences with people and alcohol (I'm guessing), but try to realise that you're only adding a negative voice to someone who has had a bad experience. When someone reaches out for help and you shame them, does that not show who you are, 'who you really are'?

Yeah don't listen to that guy, but definitely try to explain the situation to your partner. And as other people said, drugs do change who you are , so none of this is your fault. I'm sorry that someone was trying to drug you (or maybe even someone else)

/s , just in case