Yes when you're feeling better try again by yourself. This could bring you two closer as well!

What about if you masturbate and he uses his hand on himself while watching you? That could start opening some doors/ideas. Is he embarrassed to do it in front of you? Has he ever?

I think with a little patience, he'll come around to needing to see you naked. I'm sorry about your complications, that sounds scary!

You don't think he can stay faithful to you for 14 weeks? That's probably something you should talk about. Is it that he's afraid of possibly hurting you? Or maybe he's embarrassed to masturbate together? It sounds like it's all going to be new and he's probably just feeling overwhelmed right now, as I'm sure you are as well!

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I didn't miss the point at all. You asked if this is a red flag. I said yes. You.

Exactly.

I would say yes this is a red flag...on You. Not him. People are busy with work, and he probably wants to sit in silence while eating his lunch. He face times you at night. I don't have time to have a 15 minute phone call everyday while at work. I'll talk to you when I get off.

Yes. I can do it once in a while and have a great time but not all the time.

You mean your ex bf right?? You're staying with a guy that talks shit about you to people and compares you to ther girls?? What the hell, girl.

I'm doing well, how are you?

He told you he's going and if that's a deal breaker for you he doesn't care. So now you have to decide if this is divorce material because he seems ready to divorce over it.

That's what therapists are for.

I've done the things you listed and still have insomnia. The only thing that helps me is over the counter sleep pills. You can't help someone who doesn't help themselves. It is 100% my responsibility to handle my anxiety and depression. I have to make the effort to do the things that keep me from falling in to the pit of darkness. It is not my husband's responsibility to constantly pull me out of it deadweight and all.

Pump the brakes. It hasn't been more than a few months. Red flags are flying today!!

He's not a project car. You either accept him for who he is, or move on. What is sleep hygiene??

He's 28 and told you to shut the fuck up over a video game? I think you meant 16.

So he can dish it but can't take it. How do you not see that, that means he does mean the things he calls you? Those aren't "jokes". If they were he would understand you joking back. But he doesn't.

Yeah she likes to be seen as the person who goes out of her way to always help people, but we call her ass out and tell her we know it's so she can post it to social media. She gets mad, but we're not blind to her bullshit. People will always figure out that part of you. Narcissists aren't psychopaths, they're not hard to spot.

Not entirely. I have a close friend that's a narcissist, everyone knows it, and it allows all of us to understand her and how we interact with eachother. Sometimes she tries really hard not to react and behave in certain ways, and sometimes she's a cold, annoying bitch, but hey...I still love her.

I think anyone you pursue a relationship with deserves to know your diagnosis. I know most narcissists have a comfortable knack for lying, but that doesn't make it okay.

Are you in therapy for your narcissism?

I personally would find it cheesy, but the question is, Do you want him to know you're a narcissist?

I personally wouldn't care. They're his friends, and he had those friends before he met me. If you don't want his girl friends hanging out at his house, break up with him because once you say you're not okay with it, he'll tell his friends and you'll come off as the insecure crazy new gf, if he doesn't dump you first.

It sounds like he's been checked out for a while. That has to feel shitty. I'm sorry. Don't look at any of his socials. It does you no favors.