ValyrianJedi
ValyrianJedi t1_j50xykl wrote
This would be a lot easier to get behind if it didn't push things to such extremes. Saying that life has similarities with squid game is one thing, but trying to claim that it is literally exactly the same loses me. It was genuinely difficult for me to continue reading when I got to "the condition of the human person surviving in the real world is different only in the respect that it is worse while masquerading as better".
ValyrianJedi t1_j4r7i9q wrote
Reply to comment by Substantial_Space478 in Living in a greener residential area increases the diversity of oligosaccharides in breastmilk. This in turn may affect the child’s health, as the oligosaccharides in breastmilk can protect the infant from harmful microbes and reduce the risk of developing allergies and diseases. by universityofturku
> does not address the fact that higher green areas also correlate with higher incomes
Source?
ValyrianJedi t1_j3n2ubq wrote
Reply to [image] You got this by _Cautious_Memory
I don't think it drops back down on the other side. I think you get to the top, see another mountain, and realize there is more to climb. Or at the very least you get to the top and have to keep fighting off wind gusts and yetis trying to knock you back down.
ValyrianJedi t1_j3k3psp wrote
Reply to comment by Zanderax in Anna Alexandrova, a philosopher of science at Cambridge, argues that a “science of happiness” is possible but requires a new approach. Measures such as “life satisfaction” or “positive emotions” can be studied rigorously. An underlying variable of “happiness” cannot. by Ma3Ke4Li3
Happy people buy plenty of things
ValyrianJedi t1_j3gw0u0 wrote
Reply to comment by Crackedcondombaby27 in [image] by _Cautious_Memory
Depends on what you're trying to succeed at. I'd wager people with a lot of money average both more failed companies and more failed marriages than without it
ValyrianJedi t1_j37g7th wrote
Reply to comment by nyafff in [Image] "You have to fight through some bad days to earn the best days of your life." by Butterflies_Books
Kinda sounds like you just want something to be up in arms over.
ValyrianJedi t1_j37g2sb wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in [Image] "You have to fight through some bad days to earn the best days of your life." by Butterflies_Books
Take just the absolute basics of food and shelter. Hard to have a good day when you are starving and homeless. You have to do things to avoid being starving and homeless, and taking no action whatsoever will lead to both. All of the prerequisites of somebody having a good day require action being taken. No action has to be taken to have a bad day.
ValyrianJedi t1_j37fj0v wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in [Image] "You have to fight through some bad days to earn the best days of your life." by Butterflies_Books
Yes. There are a decent many externalities required to have a good day, and none to have a bad one.
ValyrianJedi t1_j37exim wrote
Reply to comment by nyafff in [Image] "You have to fight through some bad days to earn the best days of your life." by Butterflies_Books
Right, and the ones who don't also don't wake up to nice days. It honestly kind of blows my mind that this is even a debatable topic. You aren't just magically going to have good days when you haven't done anything to ensure or create them. Literally just surviving requires work.
ValyrianJedi t1_j37dmfs wrote
Reply to comment by nyafff in [Image] "You have to fight through some bad days to earn the best days of your life." by Butterflies_Books
Kids have other people take care of all their needs though. Adults don't. If you're having a good day it's because you've done everything needed to and put yourself in a position to do so.
ValyrianJedi t1_j37ausr wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in [Image] "You have to fight through some bad days to earn the best days of your life." by Butterflies_Books
Because nothing just materializes out of thin air
ValyrianJedi t1_j37arcy wrote
Reply to comment by nyafff in [Image] "You have to fight through some bad days to earn the best days of your life." by Butterflies_Books
How on earth is that toxic?
ValyrianJedi t1_j2mrbsp wrote
Reply to comment by A_Muffin_Substantial in [image] by _Cautious_Memory
By buying things on credit?
ValyrianJedi t1_j2155bb wrote
Reply to [image] by _Cautious_Memory
If nobody is coming to save you, choose you, or validate you then you are in desperate need of a better support system.
ValyrianJedi t1_j1zc9zj wrote
Reply to comment by BluehibiscusEmpire in LG Innotek is ready to put true optical zoom lenses in the next wave of flagship phones by thebelsnickle1991
Ive never had a problem with a case on. I have a Z fold and the camera sticks out a good bit, but with the case on the thing us actually lower than flush, not higher.
ValyrianJedi t1_j0zec1n wrote
Reply to comment by Sventipluk in Anarchism at the End of the World: A defence of the instinct that won’t go away by Sventipluk
Right. I'm saying that the latter isn't really authority by most uses of the word.
ValyrianJedi t1_j0zcfh6 wrote
Reply to Anarchism at the End of the World: A defence of the instinct that won’t go away by Sventipluk
This seems pretty full of circular reasoning, and half of the arguments seem to be based on redefining words...
Seems to get stuck in one major loop of "nobody can dominate anybody unless that person is dominating somebody, in which case they can be dominated"... Expecting a world where nobody has any say over anyone else's actions seems both impossible and wildly impractical...
Then it makes the claim that authority would still exist, they just can't tell people what to do. Which in most uses of the word would mean that they aren't actually an authority...
Then since it lists exceptions where it is OK to dominate someone and control their actions (stopping murders, thieves, etc) that opens up a pretty big problem of who decides when it's OK and when it isn't.
Also, the opening line of "Anarchism is the only way of life that has ever worked or ever can" is beyond a stretch, and is likely a great way to lose 90% of your readers before the first paragraph is over.
ValyrianJedi t1_j0qnv9i wrote
Reply to [image] by _Cautious_Memory
Help can come if you're proactive and look for it. Definitely don't have to handle everything yourself.
ValyrianJedi t1_j0bylij wrote
I'm pretty sure that doing this would have cut the amount of success I've had back by like 80%. The knowledge that things weren't in my favor had a massive amount of responsibility for my actions and decisions that got me where I am.
ValyrianJedi t1_j0aaumm wrote
Reply to comment by Adreqi in [Image] My uncle passed a few months ago. Was going through some of his things and found this. Been pretty down lately, but this little poem comforted me. Reminder to try and stay positive. by majorgee
> It doesn't fit on a poster (or does it ?)
I have the whole story of Call of Cthulhu written on a poster making art from the story, so I'm betting it'll fit!
ValyrianJedi t1_j0aadeu wrote
Reply to comment by Some-Philly-Dude in [Image] My uncle passed a few months ago. Was going through some of his things and found this. Been pretty down lately, but this little poem comforted me. Reminder to try and stay positive. by majorgee
Whenever we have an issue my wife gets upset that I'm not freaking out, as if it means I'm not bothered. Think she finally realizes that, no, I'm bothered, freaking out just won't help anything.
ValyrianJedi t1_izx92nf wrote
Reply to comment by B4SSF4C3 in [Image] Warning: Overthinking Kills your Happiness. by sylsau
Just gotta reach out to embrace whatever randomly comes.
ValyrianJedi t1_izx8wp1 wrote
Reply to comment by Blue_Eagle8 in [Image] Warning: Overthinking Kills your Happiness. by sylsau
Please tell me this is satire
ValyrianJedi t1_izkj20j wrote
Reply to comment by Trips-Over-Tail in [Image] Reminder: What is coming is better than what is gone. by sylsau
I'm sorry buy you are just blowing scenarios far out of proportion to the extent that virtually no experts are claiming that what you are will happen, to the point that there really isn't even any point trying to respond to it... Think whatever you want obviously, but I don't really see any point trying to discuss it with you after that one
ValyrianJedi t1_j5js13z wrote
Reply to "Understand the philosophy of a place and you'll understand its culture" | Julian Baggini explores how to approach non-Western philosophies, without exoticizing, essentalising or domesticating by IAI_Admin
I have to travel a lot for work for a sales/finance role. We usually have a little mini class before going to a new country that's just like the "here are differences between here and there", some basic "drive on the other side of the road", some "don't make small talk", some "don't break these laws that they have". But we've had a couple of specific sales trainings on selling in other countries that were really wild, and ended up being entirely true... Like if you pitch something in Japan the same way that you do in the U.S. it will fail every time. They just don't care about the same things. Like in some countries you basically just pitch dollars saved/made, in some you don't really even touch on that and just pitch "it will make your company operate more smoothly", in some you focus on the impact on people, etc... And you can tell that it is because of some fundamental difference in people's core beliefs that they have built their entire society on. It's always been really cool to think about.