Thank you. I just texted him: “Hey . Thank you for expressing you feelings to me I really appreciate it. I think we both need time to focus on ourselves again. If you are still interested we can reconnect later on. We can just stay as friends. I hope you have a great day so far. :)” I’ll just focus on myself for a while I guess. I will be better and get back to him(if I still like him). Thank you so much for leaving kind messages.

I know I do sounds like and act like a child.. but on Valentine’s Day, even my friend just date a girl for twice bought a flower for her. I feel that’s the basic stuff to do. I know I ruined it I’ve already been working on it so hard. I did have some relationship before. all bad side of me happens recently to be honest. I know I’m super toxic I know… I’m trying to improve myself soooo hard. I like him so much. I do feel so sorry to make him feel stressful about everything. What can I do to make him change his mind while I’m working on myself?… I don’t want to lose him because my stupid issue.

Thank you so much! I do feel I kinda always rely on other people to help me fix my issue. I’ve been even trying to focus on my own life. I walk my dog three times a day and cook and study, go to school and gym. Even though im busy enough I still miss him a lot. At the beginning I was dating him for fun, I’ve been even trying dating and talking to 15 guys at the same time to not feel lonely. But he’s the only one I want to talk now and he has already seen I changed a lot. I have nothing to do at the beginning, no hobby no my own life busy with dating. I really want to know what I can do to let him don’t feel stressful anymore and make him believe I will be better myself. I would like to change everything for him and for myself.

I’m keeping talking to my therapist about those. He just asked me to be patient and I’ve been working on this so much! I used to be cry every time when guys leave me and go back to their home. Now I’m already way much better. I am hearing his feelings. But I don’t know how to prove my sincerity to change this and improve myself. I just don’t know what to do.. he wants a gf to meet occasionally but in that case I have to hold my feelings, which makes him feel bad as well. What can I tell him what should I do…

I feels this is too fast as well. But we’ve been seeing everyday for a month. I feel I’ve already known him pretty much.

I did have one experience similar like this before. The first guy I’ve been dating I cried for the first date because I like him a lot( idk just for no reason) and I want to jump into a relationship immediately with him. I kept telling him I wants to see him again. And he told me he was scared and stressful for the first date.

I thought he would ghost me but we met the second time, he cried in front of me as well cause he told me he likes me as well but not too much and still wants to meet me. He’s scared of making commitment because we only met TWICE…..

I know this is so ridiculous lmao.. I don’t know what’s wrong with me…