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TrialAndAaron t1_je7wvom wrote
Reply to comment by Detavitca in eli5 What do blood labs do with your blood after they have tested it? by ratboy_r97
My wife just had a breast implant removal and keeping them was an option. I said send package them up baby! They’re sitting on my counter right now. No idea what to do with them
TrialAndAaron t1_je4iqdx wrote
Reply to comment by toomanyeevees2 in ELI5: How does breathing into a paper bag help with hyperventilation? by nuggetandbun
Thanks for this. I always thought it was just a way to regulate breathing. Very interesting!
TrialAndAaron t1_j7gs5pg wrote
Reply to comment by certainguy in Hi! I am a Relationship Coach/Specialist intending to help people struggling in their relationship. Ask Me Anything! by [deleted]
Interested in this
Also do you call yourself a coach so you have no ethical obligation to any licensing board like various types of therapists would?
TrialAndAaron t1_j5zldp1 wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in TIL of Complex PTSD, which arises from prolonged, inescapable trauma (like child abuse/neglect, sex trafficking, or solitary confinement). It's hard to spot & treat, and can last a lifetime. Victims have a diminished sense of self, and issues with trust, boundaries, cognition, motor skills, & more. by Pfeffer_Prinz
Don’t compare your experiences to others. There will always be someone worse.
What you just wrote is insanely traumatic.
Get in therapy and start doing work. That work you do will translate to your kids, dude. It really will. I’m a work in progress but I’m working.
My kid is 6 and recently paused her tablet to talk about a silly argument we got in minutes prior. She literally paused it and said “dad I don’t like acting like this” and we had a good chat about what lead up to it and how we could’ve handled it differently. Most kids in her class cry, scream, kick, yell, etc (and mine does too) but she just not only had a full on grown up conversation about emotions but initiated it!
That wouldn’t have happened if I hadn’t been working on myself for over a year, making sure that I handle things as well as I can. It made me so proud of her and myself that I’ve been riding that high for days.
The point I’m making is don’t compare your experiences to other people. Just focus on you and your family and start putting in some work. Get your kids in therapy too. Kids LOVE therapy. They just get to go play completely judgment free. It’s the best. I promise the work will pay off
TrialAndAaron t1_j1b6ref wrote
Reply to Musk’s Frequent Twitter Polls Are at Risk of Bot Manipulation | New research shows votes can be easily purchased during Twitter polls by MortWellian
I’m sure he can just modify the polls too. Lol
TrialAndAaron t1_j0bbvaf wrote
Reply to Ex-Twitter employee receives over three years in prison for spying for Saudi Arabia by 3loves9
And now the Saudis are the second biggest owners of Twitter 🥳
TrialAndAaron t1_je7z1ws wrote
Reply to comment by kuh-tea-uh in eli5 What do blood labs do with your blood after they have tested it? by ratboy_r97
Two 492 cc bags of silicone. Not that cool. Sort of regretting taking them now Lol
Edit: it was a useful tool to explain what surgery monk had to our kid