She was high and drunk, he was high at one point but can't remember if he was high when they woke up and had sex a couple hours later.

I felt the same way, which is why I didn't see it as an issue before until we re-visited the situation.

She said she was manic and thought she was going to move away for a career opportunity so she rekindled their relationship but didn't get the job.

She reached out to me because she's getting married soon and said she wanted to get the conversation off her chest so she could move on and focus on her personal life.

She doesn't have any memory of what happened after they went to his house, but when she woke up she said she had pain and asked if they had sex. He said yes. She has no recollection of consenting.

According to her, it was someone she trusted and had a long time relationship with so she felt safe staying with him and she didn't want to go home that night because there was alot going on at her house (she lived with her parents at the time).

She told me she has PTSD from the event and has been going to therapy.