TheUpwardsJig

TheUpwardsJig t1_jeasi12 wrote

"When you make jokes like these, it tells me that you have those other sexual encounters on your mind and are comfortable reliving them for jokes and likes. As your partner, it is my strong preference that you not air out past sexual experiences on the internet while you and I are in a committed relationship. This is not a gendered issue, nor proof of underlying misogyny, as I also believe it would be fully unacceptable for me to behave this way too. I am happy to support you, and as an advocate for women's rights, I fully believe it is a woman's prerogative to have as much sex with as many people as she wants. I am not debating any of that. I'm not coming to you as some troll on the internet trying to police your right to express yourself. I am coming to you as your boyfriend, your committed partner, with a problem I'm having about your behavior. Please don't dismiss my discomfort."

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