From someone who also struggles with BPD, and has done the same thing to someone I loved and who loved me more; don't dump them over these "feelings" you get. You're overthinking, overwhelmed, and overall trying to push someone away because you're scared of someone knowing you and potentially, rejecting you, but not realizing that you will most likely be accepted, and cared for. Do it for you.
SoulBombarded t1_je64gf1 wrote
Reply to TIFU by breaking up with my boyfriend during a borderline episode by [deleted]
From someone who also struggles with BPD, and has done the same thing to someone I loved and who loved me more; don't dump them over these "feelings" you get. You're overthinking, overwhelmed, and overall trying to push someone away because you're scared of someone knowing you and potentially, rejecting you, but not realizing that you will most likely be accepted, and cared for. Do it for you.