Doesn't seem like a fuck up, kinda seems like a bullet dodged if I'm being perfectly honest.
I know you like this girl, but she slept with you, knowing you're a virgin while seeing another guy she supposedly would rather be with. There's only a few reasons this would happen, and none of them are good.
A. She's the type to cheat and she would've cheated on you too.
B. She likes this guy, but he doesn't like her and just considers her a fuck buddy, and she was using you for emotional support/stringing you along as a fall-back.
Neither situation is good for you. As another commenter said, be wary of her coming running back to you in a few months when her and this other guy split up. I'm not saying 100% don't get back with her, but just...think about it first.
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Reply to TIFU By Ruining a Good Friendship by WalterJamis
Doesn't seem like a fuck up, kinda seems like a bullet dodged if I'm being perfectly honest.
I know you like this girl, but she slept with you, knowing you're a virgin while seeing another guy she supposedly would rather be with. There's only a few reasons this would happen, and none of them are good.
A. She's the type to cheat and she would've cheated on you too.
B. She likes this guy, but he doesn't like her and just considers her a fuck buddy, and she was using you for emotional support/stringing you along as a fall-back.
Neither situation is good for you. As another commenter said, be wary of her coming running back to you in a few months when her and this other guy split up. I'm not saying 100% don't get back with her, but just...think about it first.