Saxamaphooone

Saxamaphooone t1_jd0wdhf wrote

Exactly this. Speaking as a woman, it SUCKS when you’ve been friends with a guy you thought was genuinely a friend, only to later discover he “fuck zoned” you the entire time and was just waiting for you to be available. It feels like he was just waiting in line for “his turn” and the entire friendship was a farce.

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Saxamaphooone t1_iy170ji wrote

Juice is a really insidious one. On the surface it can sound like a healthier choice, but when you look deeper it becomes quite clear that it can be just as bad as drinks that are well-known to be full of sugar. I know someone who works in a dental office and they have to have “the juice talk” with parents countless times every year.

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Saxamaphooone t1_iwuyp05 wrote

If she’s dislocated her jaw before (and/or any other joints) has she been checked for hypermobility issues like Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome? I have hEDS and while I’m pretty sure it’s part of the reason I have no gag reflex, it’s also the reason I have dislocated my jaw numerous times while deep throating partners, lol.

It’s always a good test of the other person’s level of calm too. I warned my now-husband about it and it happened the very first time I went down on him. I sat up, reduced it (I carry a syringe in my purse just for this reason), then went to continue a little less vigorously and he stopped me immediately and was like “whoa whoa, your jaw just came out of your skull. You don’t need to continue!” and I told him that my jaw comes out of my skull when I do a number of things. If I stopped trying to do what I was doing every time it happened, I’d never yawn, sing, yell and cheer at a game, eat hamburgers or subs, give head, etc. He sort of paused for a beat and then went, “okay then!” and we continued, lol.

Now he’s not even fazed when he wakes up to me putting the various parts of my skeleton back into place in the morning.

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