Clearly you’re copy and pasting and must be just spamming people. Find a better way to use your time.

You’re either lying and making this all up or you’re not willing to take advice that doesn’t match your opinion and shouldn’t be asking.

Either way, Happy New Year.

This may sound harsh and it’s not intended to.

You’re not really viewing this right. He probably just has multiple types and likes you individually.

My partner isn’t my “type” by what you see me liking or whom I’ve dated before.

All that said, the way you’re acting, don’t be surprised if you’re no longer of interest to him.

It’s suggestive but not truly clear. Go meet them if they want, tell them you’re interested in getting to know them better and if the first meet is good, flat out ask “would you be open to a date on (pick an exact date)?”

That’s a direct question. They have three responses:

1.) No - not interested

2.) No - let’s pick another date cause I have plans

3.) Yes - they are interested

Now the goal is clear, they’re not in limbo and neither are you.

You need to pick a date in the question, so it removes any ambiguity.

Edit: a good life skill is learning to ask direct questions like above. But also, asking open ended questions.

For example:

Do you like “food A”? (Answer can be Yes or No, this isn’t going to illicit conversation from shy people)

Replace it with: I really love “food A”, it reminds me of (memory)… that makes me (feeling). What’s your favorite food?

Now there isn’t a “yes/no” that is appropriate to respond with. They’re going to answer with something you can build upon. Since you led with your feelings and a memory, it will make them more likely to dig in and qualify more upon your questions. After that, they’ll want to go back to your statements and inquire there or expand upon them.

This is a good way to keep conversation flowing.

I don’t know Jerry, but I’m very upset about it. VERY upset!

Bash Bish Falls is up in there and it’s beautiful.