I stated in my own. She has no reason to do tht it will only make her look a bit unhinged to him. She should just walk away and keep her dignity. This man is an AH. She dodged a bullet.

Can't really argue with this... my mom kept thinking she could change my stupid dad after his..mistakes..

Life doesn't work tht way OP. Dump this AH

You deserve better girl! No man in a relationship would need tinder on his phone. He wants to try and spin this on you or make u feel guilty or crazy for not believing him.

He's a dud. Focus on yourself. You sound lovely!

It's a whole parade of 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 you are right!

Agree with this. It's been a month! OP with respect you are way too grown to be playing these games.

If you need to catfish people.. you might not be ready for a relationship and should maybe work on yourself and heal.

And at the end of the day the dude wanted to cheat so just move on. You don't owe him a big "ah ha! I caught you" because that's gonna make you look...insecure and crazy.

Just dump the dude and tell him he isn't for you. Which he's not. You deserve better but u also deserve to feel abit more secure about yourself and dating. A few weeks of seeing someone is way too short to be getting serious.

Next time maybe get to know someone's character better before jumping head first into sleeping together and dating. That way you don't waste your time and have more reassurance the dude actually wants to get to know you for you not just to hook up.