OptimisticRealist__

OptimisticRealist__ t1_iuhtk7l wrote

Im just saying, not everything automatically needs to be a big conspiracy to cheat on you or whatnot.

Again, i can only speak for myself, but i think almost everybody has been in a situation where they are out with their friends and having a good time, they see a message on their phone and just think to themselves that theyll reply later. I know i have.

So my advice would be, to on one hand talk to your gf about your and her expectations, but please not in a demanding or.accusatory way. I guarantee you that will make.her annoyed.

Id also advice you, to not obsess over what your gf is doing when shes out. At a certain point you also have to trust her. If she really was cheating, no amount of obsessing would prevent her from doing so anyways.

And on a sidenote, an ex of mine would routinely send me "thinking of you" texts when she was out. She was the only gf i had that ended up actually cheating on me. Just to put things into perspective

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OptimisticRealist__ t1_iuhskva wrote

Very much disagree with the other user.

I barely ever reply to texts and pretty much never pick up my phone, when im hanging out with friends, cause im just enjoying the moment and the conversations etc.

This is not in any way a proof that my gf is not a priority in my life - she very much is and she knows that. But just like i wont expect her to reply to me all the time when shes out, she doesnt expect me to do so either.

Like you gotta also let your partners have space and time on their own too, folks.

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